Bulges - Rock Your Bulge

Installment #14 - Positive Sexuality

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BULGE refers to the visible outline or protrusion of a man’s cock and balls through clothing, specifically the front of the underwear, pants, or more famously, gray sweatpants.

Who cares? Many straight men admit they are conscious of other men’s bulges; and of course gay men pay attention - obviously. And women have acknowledged they notice a man’s bulge. A bulge just seems to be part of the “masculinity quotient,” enhancing a man’s masculine physique.

A bulge creates a sense of mystery, leading our minds to fill in the blanks with our own desires and expectations.

Thick? Long? Cut? Uncut? What would it feel like in my...?

While the bulge in your pants can make you feel more confident, absolute confidence comes from being true to yourself. 

It’s about finding balance in your appearance and remembering to be comfortable and healthy. Ultimately, being confident means showing off who we are in a way that makes us feel good. It’s not just about how our junk looks, but feeling great about our unique self.

CELEBRITY BULGES Well, sometimes it does seem to be about penis size! From Cosmopolitan, “Like the postal service, neither rain nor wind nor snow will keep Jon Hamm’s penis from displaying its majestic silhouette. Nothing comes between Jon Hamm’s penis and its Banana Republic pants. Nothing. Because this is America.” Hamm’s schlong bulge seems to have made as many public appearances as he has; and always arrives onstage before he does!

Having a big bulge in your pants is more than just how it looks; it’s about showing your style. It’s not just about getting looks or being noticed; it’s about being confident in ourselves.

CONFIDENCE ROCKING THE BULGE

Confidence is a big deal in our personal and work life, showing that putting effort into how we look is important. Whether it’s picking the right underwear or getting in better shape, feeling good about our appearance is more than just liking what we see in the mirror; it’s about enhancing our confidence.

There are many ways to “enhance” your bulge, without resorting to anything unnatural: Choosing the right underwear, wearing the proper pants or shorts, or using a cock ring.

COCK RINGS are designed to support everything in a slightly more forward and lifted position, which invariably creates a more pronounced bulge. In my experience, they do just that. The ring applies gentle pressure, improving the overall outline of my junk; a subtle change that can give you a significant boost. Just remember, it’s best to choose a soft, stretchy cock ring for comfort and safety.

FREEBALLING is another alternative. Freeballing is wearing pants, shorts, a kilt, etc., without underwear; essentially a man’s dick and balls unrestrained and hanging free. Going without underwear is also known as “going commando,” so called because the cock and balls hang free and unencumbered. Many guys like to freeball in the summer, but some prefer jockey shorts, to give the balls a little support, since otherwise they hang too low in the heat. Many of us usually freeball if we’re anticipating a sexual encounter.

COMMANDO is, in fact, the way that Scots wearing kilts are supposed to be dressed; which “may” result in their cocks and balls peeking into view of others. Shocking!

Exhibitionists may freeball with only thin fabric or very short shorts, allowing noticeable dick print, which can be apparent to others, especially as they sit or walk about. Of course, such pervey activity provides cheap thrills for both the exhibitionist and voyeur alike! Especially when the dick or balls “slip out!”

Being your authentic gorgeous self comes from being genuinely comfortable with who you are. It’s not just about cock rings, enhancing the bulge in your pants, or how you dress, but embracing your unique positive qualities. And for fuck sake, try to avoid comparing yourself to others and focus on being yourself.

Excerpts From POSITIVE SEXUALITY FOR MEN - Jayson R. Diesel. This material may be protected by copyright.

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